A few years ago, I found myself stuck in the usual weekend routine: errands, chores, and catching up on emails. As a dad of two, I felt like I was constantly in “provider mode,” always doing what needed to be done but rarely making time for myself. Then, one weekend in November, my 7-year-old son asked me to help him build a birdhouse for his school project. It was a game-changer. I realized that not only did I enjoy woodworking, but spending that time together created memories I’ll cherish forever. That one birdhouse project sparked a passion for finding hobbies that I could share with my family—or enjoy solo while still being a present dad.
Here are some hobbies to try this November, inspired by that journey.
As a busy father juggling work, family, and everything in between, I used to feel like I was constantly running out of time. My days were packed with to-do lists, and yet I always felt like I wasn’t doing enough. The turning point came when I realized the source of my stress: I was doing too much and surrounded by too much. That’s when I discovered the beauty of minimalism. It’s not just about decluttering your home; it’s a mindset that can transform your entire lifestyle. Let me share how adopting a minimalist lifestyle has helped me become a calmer, more focused, and more present father—and how it can help you too.
1. Woodworking and DIY Projects
If you’ve ever wanted to channel your inner craftsman, November is a great time to start. The cooler weather makes garage or basement projects more comfortable, and you can focus on creating something practical or decorative. Start small, like building a birdhouse, bookshelf, or even restoring an old piece of furniture. Not only is woodworking calming, but it’s also incredibly rewarding to see your finished project take shape.
For dads with kids, get them involved! Sanding, painting, or even just handing you tools can make it a great bonding activity. Plus, they’ll feel proud to see something they helped create.
2. Hiking and Nature Walks
November’s crisp weather and colorful leaves make it the perfect time to explore local trails. Hiking is an excellent way to stay active while enjoying the beauty of nature. Bring your kids along for a family-friendly hike, or go solo for some quiet time to recharge.
Make it fun by turning it into a scavenger hunt: look for unique leaves, interesting rocks, or spot wildlife. You could even collect some of that autumn foliage for an arts-and-crafts project later at home.
The first change I made was to my schedule. I used to say yes to every work meeting, social outing, and extracurricular activity for my kids. But I soon realized that a packed calendar was stealing time away from what mattered most: my family. Now, I prioritize what’s truly important. Instead of signing up for three sports teams, my kids pick one activity they’re passionate about. I block out time for family dinners and Sunday hikes without distractions. Trust me, simplifying your schedule works wonders for your mental health.
3. Photography
If you love capturing moments, why not dive into photography? November’s golden light and vibrant autumn colors are a dream for photographers of any skill level. Whether you’re using a fancy camera or just your smartphone, head out to a park or your backyard to snap some stunning shots.
Challenge yourself to take family portraits or scenic photos during weekend outings. If your kids love being creative, let them join in and teach them some basic photography skills.
4. Cooking or Baking
November is all about hearty meals and comfort food. Use the weekends to try new recipes, bake seasonal treats, or even experiment with creating your own signature dish. Cooking can be incredibly therapeutic, and it’s a great way to unwind after a busy week.
If your kids love helping in the kitchen, turn it into a fun activity by making cookies, pies, or even homemade pizzas together. Bonus: you’ll get to enjoy delicious treats as a family!
Our house used to feel like it was bursting at the seams with toys, gadgets, and random clutter. One weekend, I decided to tackle it one room at a time. I started with the living room, then moved on to the kitchen, the kids’ rooms, and eventually the garage. We donated toys the kids had outgrown, gadgets we never used, and clothes that hadn’t seen the light of day in years. The result? A calmer, more organized space where we can all breathe easier.
5. Fishing
Fishing may not be a year-round activity in every area, but if the season is still open where you live, November is a fantastic time to enjoy a peaceful morning by the water. This hobby is great for dads who love quiet, reflective activities. It’s also an excellent way to teach patience and appreciation for nature to your kids.
Pack some hot chocolate and make a day of it—it’s a relaxing way to connect with your kids or spend some time on your own.
6. Gardening and Winter Prep
Gardening isn’t just for spring and summer. November is the perfect time to prepare your garden for winter or try planting cold-weather crops like garlic or kale. If you have kids, they’ll love helping with raking leaves, planting bulbs, or even decorating the yard with seasonal touches.
This hobby is not only relaxing but also productive, and you’ll thank yourself when those first flowers bloom in the spring!
One of the most rewarding aspects of minimalism is teaching my kids that they don’t need more stuff to be happy. Instead of buying them toys every time we visit a store, we focus on experiences. A trip to the park, a family board game night, or baking cookies together brings so much more joy than another plastic gadget. It’s amazing to see them appreciating the simple things in life.
7. Board Games or Tabletop Gaming
For dads who love a bit of strategy and fun, board games or tabletop games are a fantastic way to spend a cozy November weekend. Gather the family or some friends for classic games like Settlers of Catan, Ticket to Ride, or even a seasonal Monopoly session.
This hobby doesn’t require much preparation, and it’s a great way to bring everyone together for laughter and quality time.
Why Hobbies Matter
Hobbies aren’t just about fun—they’re about balance. As a dad, taking time to pursue something you love can recharge your energy, reduce stress, and even strengthen your bond with your family. And November, with its slower pace and cozy vibes, is the ideal time to start.
I’ll admit it: I used to spend way too much time scrolling through my phone. Social media, emails, and news updates were consuming hours of my day. Now, I’ve set boundaries. I limit my screen time, disable unnecessary notifications, and even have “no phone zones,” like the dinner table. This change has not only given me more time but also helped me stay more connected with my family.
Final Thoughts
Whether you’re building something in the workshop, exploring a new trail, or baking cookies with your kids, these hobbies offer the perfect mix of relaxation and connection. As I learned from that birdhouse project with my son, hobbies can spark joy, create memories, and remind you to make space for yourself—even in the busiest seasons of life. This November, give one (or more!) of these activities a try—you might just discover your next passion.
