1. Pack Like a Pro (But Don’t Overdo It)
The first time I traveled with my baby, I packed everything I could think of—just in case. Spoiler alert: I didn’t use half of it, and lugging all that extra stuff around was exhausting. Now, my mantra is: pack smarter, not heavier.
Stick to the essentials: diapers, wipes, a change of clothes, snacks, favorite toys, and any must-have baby gear (like a stroller or carrier). If you’re flying, remember to keep liquids like formula or breast milk in TSA-compliant storage, but don’t be afraid to bring enough—you’re allowed exceptions for baby food and drinks.
2. Time Your Travel Wisely
If you can, schedule travel during your baby or toddler’s nap time. A sleeping child on a plane or in the car is a gift to both you and your fellow travelers. I’ve also found that early morning flights are less hectic, meaning shorter lines and fewer crowds, which helps keep everyone calm.
3. Snacks: Your Best Friend
I cannot overstate the importance of snacks. Snacks are more than just food—they’re a distraction, a comfort, and sometimes a bribe (I’m not above that when things get tough). For toddlers, pack their favorites but try to avoid anything too messy. For babies, formula or pre-made purees are a lifesaver. And remember, no one judges a parent giving their kid a cookie on a plane during a meltdown. Do what you need to survive.
4. Invest in the Right Gear
The right travel gear can make all the difference. A lightweight, foldable stroller is a must-have for navigating airports and train stations. I also love baby carriers for hands-free movement—they’re especially helpful when dealing with security lines. For toddlers, consider a small backpack they can carry with a few of their favorite toys or books. Giving them a “job” to do can make them feel involved and excited.
5. Prepare for the Worst, Hope for the Best
Sometimes, things won’t go as planned. Delays happen, tantrums erupt, and diaper blowouts occur at the worst moments. The key is to stay flexible and keep your sense of humor. Whenever I start to feel stressed, I remind myself that these moments make for the best travel stories later (even if they’re not funny in the moment).
6. Screen Time Is Okay
Let’s be honest: holiday travel is not the time to enforce screen-free parenting. Download their favorite shows, apps, or games on a tablet or phone, and let them enjoy it guilt-free. A happy child means a happier trip for everyone.
7. Don’t Forget About You
It’s easy to focus so much on your little one that you forget to take care of yourself. Pack some snacks for you, wear comfortable clothes, and stay hydrated. A stressed-out parent makes for a stressed-out child, so do your best to stay calm and collected (even if it feels impossible).
8. Enjoy the Journey, Not Just the Destination
It’s easy to get caught up in the chaos of holiday travel and forget that this is all part of the experience. When I travel with my kids, I try to embrace the little moments—the excitement in their eyes as they see planes taking off or the fun of discovering a new place together.
Holiday travel with babies and toddlers takes extra planning and patience, but it’s worth it. With the right mindset and a few helpful strategies, you can make the journey just as memorable as the destination. Good luck, and safe travels!
