Spring is here, and with it comes a mix of excitement, chaos, and opportunity. As a dad, I’ve learned over the years that spring is no walk in the park—unless you’re literally walking in the park, which is something you’ll likely be doing a lot. Between sports practices, school events, and the inevitable yard work, it’s easy to feel like spring is less about blooming flowers and more about juggling a dozen responsibilities at once. But here’s the thing: spring doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. If you’re prepared and have the right mindset, it can actually become a season you truly enjoy, instead of just endure.
So, whether you’re a first-time dad or a seasoned pro still figuring out how to handle spring chaos, here’s my personalsurvival guide.
Embrace the Chaos of Spring Sports
If you’re a dad of school-age kids, you already know that spring means one thing: sports season. Soccer, baseball, lacrosse—whatever it is, you’re going to be spending a lot of time on the sidelines. And if you’re lucky, you might even get roped into coaching (I’ve been there—it’s equal parts chaotic and rewarding).
But here’s what I’ve learned: instead of grumbling about how your Saturdays are no longer your own, lean into it. Pack a comfortable chair, a travel mug of coffee, and a good attitude. These are the moments your kids will remember, even if they never actually score a goal. And hey, if you can’t resist the urge to yell advice from the sidelines, at least try to keep it positive.
Get Ahead of Yard Work
Ah, yard work. The never-ending saga of leaves, weeds, and grass that always seems to grow faster than you can mow it. Spring is when everything comes back to life, which is great for nature but can be a nightmare for your to-do list.
Here’s my advice: don’t let it pile up. Dedicate one or two weekends early in the season to getting your yard in order. Clean out the flower beds, sharpen the mower blades, and tackle those weeds before they take over. It’s a lot easier to maintain a yard than it is to rescue one that’s gone wild. And trust me, nothing feels better than cracking open a cold drink and admiring a freshly mowed lawn.
Spring Cleaning: Team Effort
Spring cleaning often feels like a solo mission, but it doesn’t have to be. Over the years, I’ve turned it into a family affair. Kids may not like the idea of cleaning, but when you frame it as a “team mission” (and maybe throw in a little reward at the end), they’re usually willing to chip in.
Divide and conquer: one kid can tackle the toys, another can help mom with closets, and you can focus on the garage. Set a timer, blast some music, and make it less about the chore and more about the accomplishment. You’ll not only get the house in order, but you’ll also teach your kids some valuable lessons about responsibility.
Allergy Season: Be Prepared
If you’re like me and suffer from seasonal allergies, spring can feel like Mother Nature’s cruel joke. The blooming flowers and fresh-cut grass are great until your face feels like it’s under attack. And if your kids have allergies too? Double the fun.
Stock up on antihistamines, tissues, and eye drops early in the season. I also keep a small stash of these in my car, just in case we’re out and someone starts sneezing uncontrollably. And don’t forget the trick of showering before bed—it helps wash off all the pollen you’ve accumulated throughout the day.
Make Time for Family Adventures
Spring weather can be unpredictable, but when it’s nice out, it’s the perfect time for family outings. After being cooped up all winter, everyone is ready to stretch their legs and soak up some sun.
Plan a few day trips, even if it’s just to a local park or hiking trail. Pack a picnic, bring a frisbee, and leave the screens at home. These moments are not only great for bonding but also for wearing out the kids so they sleep like rocks later.
Grilling Season is Back
One of my favorite things about spring is firing up the grill again. There’s something about cooking outdoors that justfeels right, especially after months of being stuck inside. Whether it’s burgers, hot dogs, or something more ambitious, grilling is a great way to bring the family together for a meal that feels like a celebration.
If you’re new to grilling, don’t overcomplicate it. Start with the basics and work your way up. And if you’re a seasoned grill master, use this spring to experiment with new recipes or techniques. Pro tip: get the kids involved in prepping the food—it makes the whole process even more fun.
Prioritize Self-Care
Let’s be honest: dads don’t always take the best care of themselves. We’re so focused on making sure everyone else is okay that we sometimes forget about our own well-being. But here’s the thing: you can’t take care of your family if you’re running on empty.
This spring, make it a point to carve out some time for yourself. Whether it’s hitting the gym, reading a book, or just taking 15 minutes to sit in silence, self-care isn’t selfish—it’s necessary.
Handle School Projects Like a Pro
Spring is also the season of school projects, and if your kids are anything like mine, they’ll conveniently “remember” these projects the night before they’re due. Don’t panic. Keep a stash of basic supplies—poster boards, markers, glue, and the like—so you’re not running to the store at 9 p.m.
And remember, it’s okay to let your kids take the lead. Sure, you’re there to help, but the project doesn’t have to be perfect. What matters is that they learn something and feel proud of their work.
Celebrate the Little Wins
Spring can feel like a whirlwind, but it’s important to celebrate the little wins along the way. Maybe it’s finally getting the garden planted, surviving a particularly chaotic weekend of sports, or just having a peaceful family dinner.
These moments might seem small, but they’re what make the season special. Take a step back every now and then to appreciate the chaos and beauty of it all.
Look Ahead
Lastly, use spring as a time to look ahead. Summer is just around the corner, and it’s never too early to start planning. Whether it’s a family vacation, a backyard project, or just a list of things you’d like to accomplish, having something to look forward to makes the busy spring season feel more manageable.
Spring doesn’t have to be a survival game—it can be a season of growth, fun and connection. Sure, there will be moments of chaos, but with the right mindset and a little preparation, you can navigate it like a pro. And who knows? You might even find yourself looking forward to it next year.
So here’s to spring, dads. Let’s make it a great one.
