As a dad, one of the most challenging yet rewarding aspects of parenting is finding a community of like-minded fathers to share this unique journey with. In 2025, technology and evolving social norms have opened up new ways to connect with other dads, and I’d love to share what worked for me. Here’s how I built my dad crew—step by step.
1. Embrace the Power of Dad Groups Online
- Dad-Centric Social Networks: Platforms like “DadLink” (yes, it's real now) focus entirely on connecting fathers across the world, creating a space to share advice and stories. I joined, found dads with similar interests, and even started a virtual book club with a few of them.
- Facebook Groups Still Work: Despite the rise of newer platforms, Facebook still has vibrant dad communities for everything from new dads to working dads. I found a local group where we plan park meetups every month.
- Reddit Communities: Subreddits like r/DadLife and r/Fatherhood are surprisingly active. I found a wealth of advice, memes, and relatable stories that kept me coming back.
2. Get Out to the Playground
- Start Small Chats: I realized most dads at the playground were just like me—tired but ready to connect. A simple“Hey, how old is your little one?” led to a 30-minute chat about toddler tantrums and a future playdate.
- Regular Hangout Spots: Instead of trying to meet different dads in random places, I committed to visiting the same park every Saturday. Over time, I started recognizing familiar faces, and friendships eventually followed.
3. Try Dad-Focused Apps
- Connecting Virtually: Apps like “Fatherly Connect” helped me find dads around my area with similar schedules. It’s like a LinkedIn for dads but with more talk about diaper blowouts than professional networking!
- Skill-Sharing Features: Some apps pair dads based on hobbies. I met ther dads who’s also into woodworking, and we’ve had a blast building playhouses for our kids.
- Virtual Events: I even joined a webinar for first-time dads through an app and ended up exchanging numbers with a few of the attendees.
4. Participate in Community Events
- Parenting Workshops: My local library hosted a workshop on raising emotionally intelligent kids. Not only did I learn a lot, but I also met other dads and exchanged tips during the coffee break.
- Sports Leagues: Many dads bond through sports, whether it’s joining a recreational basketball league or coaching your kids’ soccer team. Personally, I joined a weekend softball league just for dads—it’s been both fun and therapeutic.
- Volunteer Events: Family-friendly volunteering opportunities, like beach cleanups or charity runs, offer a great way to connect with other dads while making a positive impact.
5. Lean into Hobbies
- Find Dad-Friendly Hobby Groups: Whether it’s a running club, gaming group, or even a beer-brewing meetup, hobbies are a great way to break out of the parenting bubble while connecting with other dads. I joined a cycling club that organizes dad-kid bike rides once a month.
- Try New Interests: I took up fishing this year and ended up meeting a few seasoned dad anglers who were more than happy to teach me (and my kid) the ropes.
6. Don’t Forget About the Workplace
- Office Dads Unite: If you’re like me and work in an office with other parents, you’ve already got a potential network right there. I started a “Dad Lunch” once a month, where a few of us swap parenting stories over sandwiches.
- Remote Work Dad Groups: With remote work becoming more common, virtual dad groups at work are popping up. I joined one at my company and found camaraderie in balancing Zoom calls with baby tantrums.
7. School Is a Hidden Gem
- Parent-Teacher Associations: I got involved with my child’s PTA, and it was a goldmine for meeting other dads. Surprisingly, dads are showing up more than ever in 2025!
- School Events: From science fairs to parent-teacher nights, these events provided opportunities to bump into other fathers and start conversations.
- Sports and Extracurriculars: Being present at my child’s soccer practices led to chatting with other dads on the sidelines. It’s a low-pressure way to connect while cheering for the kids.
8. Create Your Own Community
- Start a Group: When I couldn’t find exactly what I was looking for, I decided to create it. I started a “Dads and Donuts” meetup at a local café every Sunday morning, and it’s quickly become a tradition.
- Be Consistent: The key to growing your community is consistency. Whether it’s a monthly BBQ, a recurring game night, or a hiking trip, showing up regularly builds stronger connections.
9. Use Technology to Stay Connected
- Group Chats: Once you’ve met a group of dads, start a WhatsApp or Signal group. Ours has been great for quick advice, venting, and sharing parenting wins (or fails).
- Virtual Meetups: Not all your connections can meet in person, but tools like Zoom or Discord make it easy to stay in touch. I’ve even hosted “virtual dad poker nights” with friends from different cities.
10. Focus on Being Open and Approachable
- Be Willing to Take the First Step: I used to wait for others to start the conversation, but now I’ve realized most dads are just waiting for someone to break the ice.
- Share Your Journey: Being honest about the ups and downs of parenting makes it easier to connect. Once I started opening up, it encouraged others to do the same.
- Prioritize Quality Over Quantity: It’s not about meeting as many dads as possible; it’s about building a few meaningful friendships that truly matter.
Final Thoughts
Connecting with other dads in 2025 is easier than ever, thanks to technology, evolving cultural norms, and a genuine desire for community. Whether it’s through playground chats, online groups, or shared hobbies, there’s no shortage of ways to find your tribe. For me, the key has been putting myself out there and being open to new experiences. If I can do it, so can you—let’s build that dad network!
