Summertime is here, and for me, that means two things: spending quality time with my kids and indulging in some mouthwatering BBQ. There’s something about smoky ribs, juicy brisket, and that perfect char on grilled chicken that justscreams summer. But when you’re a dad planning a day out, it’s not just about the food—it’s about creating memories, keeping the kids entertained, and finding a spot that works for the whole family. Over the years, I’ve explored a fair share of BBQ joints, and I’ve learned a thing or two about what makes a BBQ outing truly “Dad-approved.”
Here’s my roundup of BBQ spots that don’t just serve incredible food but also make for a great family outing. Whether you’re looking for a laid-back picnic area, a place with activities for the kids, or just a stress-free vibe, these spots deliver on all fronts.
1. The Backyard BBQ Joint with Room to Play
One of my all-time favorites is the kind of BBQ spot that doubles as a playground for your kids. Imagine sitting back with a brisket sandwich while the kids climb, run, and explore a safe play area just a few feet away. These places strike the perfect balance: I get to enjoy my BBQ without having to wolf down my meal in five seconds flat because someone’s “bored” or “hungry again.”
Some BBQ joints are savvy enough to combine good food with family-friendly spaces. Look for places with outdoor seating, picnic tables, and maybe even a few lawn games like cornhole or giant Jenga. These spots make it easy to kick back while keeping an eye on the little ones.
2. BBQ Meets Nature: Smokehouses Near Parks or Trails
As a dad, I’m all about multitasking. If I can combine my love for BBQ with the chance to get the kids outside and moving, it’s a win-win. I’ve come across a few gems located near parks, nature trails, or lakes. These are the kind of places where you can grab some pulled pork to-go, then head out for a hike or a relaxing lakeside picnic.
One summer, I found this BBQ shack right next to a state park. We spent the morning hiking, then refueled with ribs and coleslaw before ending the day at the park’s splash pad. The kids were thrilled, and I got to enjoy BBQ without worrying about them sitting still in a restaurant for too long.
3. The Local Gem with Live Music (and Kid-Friendly Tunes)
There’s something special about live music while you eat. Some BBQ joints really nail this, offering live bands or acoustic sets that give the place a fun, vibrant energy. The best ones, though, know their audience and keep it family-friendly. No ear-piercing rock or overly loud amps—just good tunes that even the kids can bop along to.
I remember one spot where the band played classic singalongs, and my kids ended up dancing in front of the stage while I polished off a plate of ribs. It was the perfect mix of fun for them and relaxation for me. Look for places that advertise live music during the day or early evening—it’s a great way to keep everyone entertained.
4. All-You-Can-Eat Buffets for Hungry Families
Let’s be real—kids can eat a lot, especially after a day of swimming, running around, or just being kids. And as a dad, nothing makes me happier than seeing my kids enjoy a good meal (without breaking the bank). That’s where BBQ spots with all-you-can-eat options come in clutch.
One place we visited had an endless buffet of ribs, pulled pork, mac and cheese, baked beans, and cornbread. The kids were in heaven, and I loved being able to go back for seconds (or thirds) without feeling guilty. These spots are perfect for families because everyone leaves happy—and full.
5. The BBQ Spot with an Ice Cream Finale
What’s better than BBQ? BBQ followed by ice cream. Some of my favorite family outings have ended with a stop at a BBQ spot that also serves up hand-scooped cones, milkshakes, or sundaes. It makes the day feel like a celebration and gives the kids something to look forward to after finishing their meal.
There’s one particular place that we keep going back to because they have a build-your-own-sundae bar. After devouring some smoky ribs, my kids get to pile on sprinkles, chocolate syrup, and whipped cream. It’s the kind of thing they’ll talk about for weeks afterward—and I’ll admit, I enjoy it just as much as they do.
6. BBQ with a Side of History or Culture
Some BBQ joints go beyond food and offer a unique experience tied to the history or culture of the area. One summer, we stumbled upon a spot in a small town that was part BBQ shack, part local museum. While I was admiring the smoker out back, my kids were learning about the history of the town through a little exhibit set up inside.
These places are great because they turn a meal into an adventure. You get incredible food and something to spark the kids’ curiosity. Plus, it’s a nice bonus to feel like you’re sneaking in a bit of education during summer break.
7. The Farm-to-Table BBQ Experience
As a dad, I’ve learned to appreciate where my food comes from. Farm-to-table BBQ spots are a great way to teach kids about local ingredients while enjoying some seriously fresh meals. These places often source their meats and produce from nearby farms, so everything tastes extra flavorful.
Some farm-to-table BBQ joints even let you explore the farm or meet the animals. One place we visited had a petting zoo, which kept my kids entertained while I savored some of the best smoked chicken I’ve ever had. It’s wholesome, delicious, and a little educational—what more could you ask for?
8. BBQ Festivals for a Full Day of Fun
If you’re looking for a full-day outing, BBQ festivals are where it’s at. They’re like a playground for BBQ lovers, with live cooking demos, food trucks, and endless samples. The best part? Many festivals have activities for kids, like face painting, bounce houses, or craft stations.
Last summer, we went to a BBQ festival that had a “kids’ zone,” complete with a mini obstacle course and a balloon artist. Meanwhile, I got to try brisket from five different vendors and even learned a few grilling tips from a local pitmaster. It was the ultimate family day out.
A Few Final Tips for Your BBQ Outing
- Go early: Kids get cranky when they’re hungry, and BBQ spots can get busy. Beat the crowd by arriving before the rush.
- Pack the essentials: Wet wipes, extra napkins, and a change of clothes for the kids (because BBQ sauce happens).
- Plan a backup activity: If the kids finish eating before you, have a small activity ready—like coloring books or a deck of cards.
At the end of the day, BBQ outings are about more than just the food (though the food is obviously a big deal). It’s about spending time together, creating memories, and finding those little moments of joy—whether it’s watching your kid dance to live music, licking BBQ sauce off their fingers, or building a sundae to rival Mount Everest.
So this summer, pack up the car, grab the kids, and head to one of these dad-approved BBQ spots. Trust me, it’ll be worth it.
